The Processes of Change
The processes of change, utilizing the motivational interviewing approaches of Dr. William Miller and Dr. Stephen Rollnick, include:
- Engaging: the process of establishing a helpful, and working relationship with a therapist
- Focusing: the process by which you develop, and maintain a specific direction in the conversation about change
- Evoking: helping to elicit the patients’s description of their motivations for change
- Planning: developing a commitment to change, and formulating a concrete plan of action
When guiding a patient towards change, the following responses in conversation with that individual are listened for, clarified, and encouraged:
- Expressions of a desire for change: I want to, I would like to, I wish to, I hope to
- Expressions of an ability to change: I can, I am able to, I could, I would be able to
- Expressions of reasons to change: I’d be able to…, I would then probably have..,
- Expressions of the need to change: I need to, I have to, I must, I’ve got to
- Expressions of commitment to change: I promise to, I guarantee that, I give you my word that
- Expressions of readiness to change: I’m willing to, I’m ready to, I am prepared to
- Description of steps taken: I went to, I called, I did
Many of the following traits have often been associated with people who successfully change their unhealthy behavioral, emotional, and thinking patterns:
- Accepting
- Active
- Adaptable
- Adventuresome
- Affectionate
- Affirmative
- Ambitious
- Anchored
- Assertive
- Assured
- Attentive
- Bold
- Brave
- Capable
- Careful
- Committed
- Competent
- Concerned
- Confident
- Courageous
- Creative
- Decisive
- Determined
- Diligent
- Doer
- Eager
- Earnest
- Effective
- Energetic
- Ernest
- Experienced
- Faithful
- Fearless
- Flexible
- Focused
- Forgiving
- Forward-looking
- Free
- Happy
- Healthy
- Hopeful
- Imaginative
- Knowledgeable
- Loving
- Mature
- Open
- Optimistic
- Organized
- Patient
- Perceptive
- Persevering
- Persistent
- Positive
- Powerful
- Reasonable
- Receptive
- Relaxed
- Reliable
- Resourceful
- Responsible
- Sincere
- Sensible
- Skillful
- Solid
- Spiritual
- Steady
- Strong
- Thankful
- Thoughtful
- Tough
- Trusting
- Trustworthy
- Truthful
- Understanding
- Unstoppable
- Vigorous
- Visionary
- Whole
- Willing
- Wise
- Worthy
- Zestful